'I refused to let my sister bring her service dog to my wedding' (2024)

FAQs

Should you bring a dog to a wedding? ›

Depending on your dog, the venue, and your guests, the answer can be a resounding yes! While both caring for a pet and making sure everything is going right on your big day can add some extra stress, it can be worth it to have your dog there to share all the love.

Yes, you should totally invite them to be bridesmaids and groomsmen. Most of the time, your wedding is about YOU. However, your future siblings in law are family – and even though you might not get along with them as amazingly well as you do with your BFF, you should still invite them to the wedding party.

Most wedding venues will have a pet or animal policy they can share with you. Some pet-friendly venues will be more than happy to open their doors to animals, some will only allow pets to be outside (perfect if you're planning on having an outdoor wedding ceremony), and others won't allow pets on site at all.

If you wish to honor your favorite sister or best friend, make her your “Maid of Honor” and title your dog, “Dog of Honor.” Then, there are no hurt feelings. Gentle Suggestion: Attach fake rings to the dog's collar and let your two legged Maid of Honor hold onto the real rings.

“It's perfectly acceptable to bring your pet if the host invited your furry family member,” says national etiquette expert Diane Gottsman. “If you have to ask, it puts the host in an uncomfortable position.

Traditional wedding etiquette dictates that siblings be honored as bridesmaids and groomsmen, including the coveted Maid of Honor and Best Man roles. However, for less-traditional couples, including siblings as their bridesmaids and groomsmen may not be the right fit – and that's okay!

Advise your sibling to wear something comfortable but still dressy, like a one-shoulder or tea-length dress. On the other hand, if the dress code is casual, your sibling can sport their favorite mini dress or play around with color and prints (if you haven't asked them to wear a specific shade, of course).

So, the short answer is no, it's not rude to choose not to make your sister-in-law a bridesmaid.

As newlyweds, getting a dog should rank high on your to-do list. A dog can help you learn responsibility, teach you to work as a team with your partner, and even prepare you both for a baby.

Chances are it will pass without problems but it could get stuck in the intestines. Then your pet might need surgery. You can try making your pet vomit it up by giving 10mL's of hydrogen peroxide 3% by mouth to induce vomiting.

Do people have weddings for their dogs? ›

Some dog marriages are arranged by breeders to celebrate the fruitful pairing of purebred dogs. Take Reggie and Sabrina, two Yorkshire terriers brought together for their good looks and playful companionship. Their wedding ceremony was a tasteful backyard affair complete with puppy bridesmaids and a flower dog.

Check With Your Venue If You're Allowed To Bring Pets

You and your future spouse might have big plans for your dogs on your wedding day, but they could be left high and dry if your venue isn't a dog-friendly wedding venue.

They also notice how people interact with one another and can sense hostility and negativity, as well as happiness and kindness exhibited by humans around them. Negative emotions and behaviors make dogs feel uneasy, and they will definitely exhibit that uneasiness, especially to their owners.

Many couples have a bridesmaid or groomsman take the dog down the aisle. If they are well behaved, they stay up at the front with the rest of the bridal party. If your dog is likely to run back in the other direction, your pet sitter can meet them at the front and take a walk while you are getting married.

A pet's companionship and affection creates a calming effect in a marriage. Plus, the pet can be a source of entertainment and increased fun in the home.

With marriage, it's all about being there for each other, like a dog and its owner. So, in your vows, you can say something like, “I promise to stand by you, just like our dog does for us.” It's a simple and sweet way to say you're in it for the long haul.

Always ask the host if it's OK to bring your dog. And be smart! Your dog probably isn't welcome at an intimate dinner party, but a Fall open house could be perfect. Make sure your dog is well trained.